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IHAFI have a friend
Kuala Lumpur

Come as a stranger. Leave with a friend.

IHAF is Kuala Lumpur’s offline community for turning strangers into friends. We host the table, the walk, the game night — so the only thing you have to do is show up.

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300+ gatherings in the first sixteen months.

No plus-one required

Names before small talk

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Next week?

Since 2025

Sixteen months of saying hello.

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Gatherings

Different nights. Same reason to come.

The lineup changes with the week. What’s on next lives on Instagram, and it usually feels like one of these.

Long tables

Dinner with the seats shuffled. You learn someone’s name before you learn what they do.

Game nights

Cards, boards, and just enough competition to skip the weather talk.

City walks

A loose route through KL and a hard stop for drinks. Moving makes the first hello easier.

Kopitiam mornings

Slow coffee, an open chair, and nowhere you have to be for a while.

Night-out crews

Karaoke, rooftops. Arrive alone. Leave in a group chat.

Make-something days

Workshops where your hands stay busy, so the conversation can take its time.

Why people return

You don’t need a bigger network.

You need a table where someone asks your name and means it.

  1. 01

    There’s a host

    Someone is responsible for the room, so you’re not left networking in a corner with a warm drink.

  2. 02

    Small on purpose

    Gatherings stay close enough that names stick and no one disappears into a crowd.

  3. 03

    Made for regulars

    One good night is a start. The community is the people who come back.

Questions

Before you talk yourself out of it.

Kuala Lumpur

Your seat is open.

New gatherings land on Instagram first. Follow along, pick a night, and come exactly as you are.

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